For many Russian women, the idea of leaving Russia by marrying a foreigner seems to be the only solution to achieving the goal. Therefore, Russian women often sit on the sites of marriage announcements and choose husbands for themselves abroad, in particular from Germany. One Russian woman married a German and went to him in Germany. It is worth reading her feedback on the expectations and realities that she had to face.
Why do Germans marry foreign women?
Many German men actively post their profiles on dating sites, looking for wives from Western European, African or Asian countries. There are frequent cases of marriages between a German and a Russian woman.
All over the world, Russian women are considered very beautiful. And this is really so, because in Russia marriages between close relatives, which many European countries sin, have never been allowed. Genetic diversity has allowed Russians to be one of the most powerful and physically attractive nations in the world.
The Germans, when choosing a wife from Russia, look not only at her appearance, but also hope to take care of the “family hearth”. German women rarely show the same care for the family that Russian women are capable of - they do not cook cabbage soup, do not make Bavarian sausages, and do not wait for their husbands every day from work with a set table.
As a rule, German women are primarily concerned with their own career and life; they have a husband on the list of daily tasks, but somewhere at the very bottom of it. Of course, this approach of German men is fundamentally uncomfortable and therefore they are looking for a life companion abroad.
What obstacles can there be?
Many German men rarely marry at a young age, preferring ordinary cohabitation to legalized relationships. Germans enter marriage at a mature age, from 35 to 50 years old.
Although men are unhappy with German women, they spend the earlier period of their lives with them due to the lack of the need to fully create a family.
If a foreign woman, for example, a Russian, has become the German's chosen one, he will need to marry her according to all the rules, otherwise she simply cannot live with him in the same country. The government red tape associated with the need to obtain a visa and residence permit is unmatched around the world. Many men are frightened in advance of her and are forced to endure neglect from their compatriot concubines.
Although it is easy to find a German husband, not everyone agrees to go through the bureaucratic circles of hell, carefully prepared for lovers by the German government. However, if the couple really love each other and are ready to start a family, then this will not cause serious problems.
